Wednesday, April 8, 2015

A month filled with appointments!

Over the course of the last few weeks we have had our fair share of appointments with Jacob. To start with, we had her six month update for Help Me Grow. This meeting included our caseworker, county physical therapist and occupational therapist to review what is basically like a baby IEP. When Jacob was three months old he was put on an IFSP which allowed us to utilize therapists through the county to work towards Jacob's developmental goals. We first reviewed the goals we made for Jacob at three months of age and then from there discussed new goals for him. It was crazy to hear the goals we had for him when he was three months old as we know so much more about him now and what the reality of his development will be. At three months we originally had goals for him to be able to make eye contact, sit up on his own, crawl and hold on to objects. One great thing is that he is meeting his eye contact goal about 50% of the time. The other goals had to basically be erased as we understand those are no longer obtainable for him. Our new goals revolved around adapting him to his new equipment (stroller/stander), batting at objects and working on head control. After we revised his goals we then discussed our desire to receive more occupational therapy for Jacob instead of physical therapy. Since he does aquatic therapy twice a week we feel he will benefit more from occupational therapy through the county. Towards the end of the meeting we discussed our need for an outside and inside stroller for him. The occupational therapist went on to schedule an appointment with Miller's equipment.


Within the next week a representative from Miller's equipment came out with a couple different models of adaptive strollers to possibly fit Jacob's needs. It was difficult to figure out which one was the best suited for him without being able to see a demo of each stroller in the catalog. Knowing that Jacob will be spending a good majority of his day in this stroller, we wanted to make sure it was something he would be comfortable in and would also be easy to transport around. After our initial appointment we met with the representative one more time to put together a couple quotes to submit to insurance. It is amazing the costs of adaptive equipment. For instance, a regular baby bumbo is maybe $25-30. A chair that is made out of the same material is about $400-500. It is just draw dropping and sad to me that families have to go through a lot as it is raising a special needs child and then on top of it pay insane amounts of money on way overpriced adaptive equipment. Back to our appointment though.. Jacob hopefully will be receiving an indoor chair and outdoor stroller hopefully in the next few months. This will soon be his main set of wheels inside and outside. I am sure Jacob can't wait!


One of our next appointments was with our neurologist. We had our usual monthly update. He felt that Jacob was making a little bit better eye contact and vocalizing, or cooing, more. The neurologist still felt he was only at a one to two month level developmentally. He was glad to see Jacob a little more content and decided to keep everything with his meds the same. He did feel that seizures could still pop up at any time but to just enjoy these calmer and content moments we are experiencing with Jacob recently. Our next appointment with the neurologist will be in 2 months.


The next appointment was our initial home visit with the Western Reserve pediatric hospice nurse. When we met last with our palliative care team at Akron, they suggested meeting with the hospice team. When the nurse came she explained a lot about pediatric hospice as we had quite a few questions. Pediatric hospice is not the same as adult. Although it may be possible, this does not mean Jacob will die today, tomorrow or in the next few months. It means he has a chronic condition that has a shortened life expectancy. Children can remain in this program for years.The goal of Western Reserve is to decrease the amount of hospital visits and gives them the ability to send a nurse out either weekly, monthly or when needed to treat minor issues that may arise. Our goals for Jacob are to keep him as comfortable as we can and give him the best quality of life. These goals align with hospice care. The Western Reserve has two "paths" of care, either hospice care or palliative care. The difference being palliative care provides less in home scheduled visits by the nurse. But all other services can be utilized. This is the path we have chosen for now. We can always change programs back and forth as Jacob's condition may change. They also have a social worker that will help us find ways and or government programs that could help us. The nurse will come to our home every other week to update on Jacob's condition and field any questions we have. The social worker will visit once a month to provide any additional support for us or our family members.


Besides that, we have had Jacob's aquatic therapy twice a week and the occupational therapist from the county is coming every other week. So between his aquatics, occupational, and hospice alone we have been keeping pretty busy. Jacob overall has had a great month. He is still taking consistent naps, sleeping decent at night, eating well, and is staying healthy. It has been a welcomed change for all of us!


On another note, Dominic is doing well too and still enjoying preschool. The other week in school they were discussing the true meaning behind Easter. They had to fill in a sheet on what they were thankful to Jesus for. We looked for Dominic's sheet on the wall and there it was - "Dominic is thankful to Jesus for ....waffles." Haha! We than spoke to him about what they learned about Jesus. He said that Jesus was hurt and took an ambulance but some other guy died. You have to love the way their little minds works!



And sorry - not sure what is going on with these fonts and white outlining lately on this blog!





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